Maddiy's fundraiser for Shooting Star Children's Hospices

Maddiy Clancy is raising money for Shooting Star Children's Hospices
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In 2017, my nephew Cash entered this world at Kingston Hospital. But what should have been a joyful occasion turned into every family’s worst nightmare. My sister experienced a placental abruption during delivery, a terrifying complication that deprived Cash of oxygen for an extended period. By the time he was born, his tiny body was unresponsive, and his heart had stopped beating. A dedicated doctor at Kingston fought tirelessly to bring him back to us, and after 14 excruciating minutes, Cash’s heart finally began to beat again. Yet, the relief was short-lived as the reality of his situation set in. The doctors warned us that his chances of survival were slim, and if he did make it, his future would be uncertain.

Cash was rushed to St George’s NICU, where he underwent hypothermic cooling treatment for 72 hours, a procedure that felt both promising and agonizingly out of our control. During those days, we clung to hope, even as we were tormented by fear. We stood by his side, hour after hour, praying for a miracle that seemed more elusive with each passing day. The silence in the room was deafening, punctuated only by the steady hum of machines keeping him alive. Our hearts broke as we watched him fight a battle so unfair, so unimaginable.

On the fifth day, our worst fears were confirmed. Test results showed that Cash had suffered severe global brain damage. The doctors, with heavy hearts, told us that there was nothing more they could do. Keeping him comfortable, they said, was the kindest option. They were going to turn off the life support, and we were urged to say our final goodbyes. The weight of that moment is something I will carry with me forever. I made promises to that innocent baby lying in his cot, promises to remember him, to cherish every moment, to never forget the love that filled the room that day.

That night was the darkest of my life. The tears were endless, and the thoughts that filled my mind were too painful to bear. I prayed for a miracle, even as I knew it was time to let go. I dreaded falling asleep, terrified of waking up to the call that would tell me it was over, that Cash was gone. But in the early hours of the morning, something incredible happened. Against all odds, after the life support was removed, Cash decided he wasn’t ready to leave us. He kept breathing on his own, a tiny flicker of life that refused to be extinguished.

The doctors warned us that his time was still limited, that he could go at any moment. But Cash had other plans. He kept that sparkle in his eye, a defiance against the fate that had been laid out for him. Days passed, and instead of fading, Cash seemed to grow stronger. The hospital made the decision to transfer him to a hospice for end-of-life care, a place where we would continue to love him until the inevitable happened.

None of us knew what to expect. We had already grieved for Cash, said our goodbyes, and now we were being asked to do it all over again. The emotional rollercoaster was almost unbearable. We were haunted by the milestones he would never reach: meeting Santa, starting school, simply coming home. Home, that sacred place of childhood memories, would remain an experience Cash would never know. How could we possibly explain to his four-year-old sibling that their brother wasn’t coming home?

But if there was any place on Earth where we wanted Cash to spend his final days, it was at Shooting Star Chase. The hospice, with its warm atmosphere, compassionate staff, and incredible facilities, felt like a home. Everyone there knew Cash, and their love for him was evident in every gesture, every word. It became our home too, a place of peace amidst the turmoil.

And then, something miraculous happened. Cash began to thrive at Shooting Star Chase. One by one, he overcame the hurdles that had once seemed insurmountable. Days turned into weeks, and weeks into months. The boy who had been given no chance was defying every odd. Now, six years later, Cash is a whirlwind of energy, a determined and fun-loving boy who approaches every challenge with a smile.

He has beaten every prediction, every grim prognosis, and continues to inspire us all with his resilience. Cash is a reminder that miracles do happen, that even in the darkest moments, there is hope. He is living proof that life, no matter how fragile, is full of possibilities. The future we once feared is now filled with the sound of his laughter, the sparkle in his eyes, and the joy of watching him grow.

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£3,150.85
+ £476.00 Gift Aid
Online
£3,150.85
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