John Dempsey

John's fundraiser for Anam Cara Parental & Sibling Bereavement Support

Fundraising for Anam Cara Parental & Sibling Bereavement Support
€1,260
raised of €3,000 target
Donations cannot currently be made to this page
Paddling around Ireland in a sea kayak
We provide a lifeline to bereaved parents and families

Story

Two years ago, I started on a circumnavigation of Ireland by sea kayak. The total journey is about 1600km. I had to stop after about 160km. I was finding it difficult to control the grief I was carrying for my daughter, Laura, who died in 2017. In the circumstances, I did the right thing. After just six days, I had raised almost €20,000, thanks to the the generosity of those that supported me.

Now two years later, I feel I am in a better place and I am resuming that journey from where I stopped. As part of this journey, I would like to raise some more funds for Anam Cara, a charity that provides support for bereaved parents and siblings. Anam Cara runs monthly support groups for parents around the island of Ireland. Through these meetings, bereaved parents find support from other bereaved parents to help them cope with their worst nightmare.

It is almost six years since Laura died. Laura's mum Nicky and I carry an enormous sadness everyday. Just like our love for Laura, this sadness has not and will not go away. Learning to carry this sadness and to live a 'normal' life takes years. Anam Cara has been a sanctuary for us. This is why I am asking you to again consider giving what you can to support this charity.

Thank you.

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About the charity

Anam Cara is a national organisation founded by bereaved parents. We provide a range of bereavement support services throughout the 32 counties. More importantly, we offer peer support and understanding to families who have experienced the death of a child. Each year in Ireland about two thousand families experience the death of a son or daughter. For some, the death may have been expected through illness or a life-limiting condition. For others, it was unexpected through stillbirth, an accident, suicide or substance abuse. Anam Cara’s online and face to face services are available to all parents regardless of age or circumstances of their child’s death and are available for as long as necessary. At Anam Cara we focus on the similarities of our loss rather than the differences and provide a level of support and understanding that others cannot offer. Our bereavement as parents unites us. Anam Cara currently has nine active local groups meeting regularly throughout the country. All Anam Cara services are offered free of charge to bereaved parents and families, and as we do not receive government funding, we rely heavily on public fundraising to fund the costs of our local groups and events. We are hugely grateful to any support you can give us. Thank you!

Donation summary

Total raised
€1,260.00
Online donations
€1,260.00
Offline donations
€0.00

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