£171
raised of £100 target
BAGS for Strife

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RCN 1194111
We Provide support to those bereaved by Suicide

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Tragically in September 2021 we lost our much loved son and friend Jared Kemp to suicide. Nothing can prepare you for a loss like this but I am learning that there is help to keep going. We are taking part in challenges as part of “TEAM Jared-we will never forget you” to raise awareness and funding for charities that support mental health and help prevent suicide.

Someone told me that grief is like carrying a heavy load- it never goes away. But you can grow stronger and find new ways of carrying it. This years challenge is sharing this load by turning stones into smiles- by turning pebbles into puffins. Jared had a great quirky sense of humour. I think he would approve x 💛

🐧This year I’ve painted 20 pebbles (found in the park) for Jared’s birthday. One for every year we shared. This time I’ve also included a flag representing each country he visited. I have been hiding them on my walks with Jed.

If you have found one you may be here! Welcome! Please feel free to keep, choose to donate to BAGS for strife- I’d love to hear where you found your puffin- or re-position it anywhere you like to make someone else smile! Jared loved these birds so now I do too 🐧

They died on the battlefield of their own personal conflict, but those left behind carry the burden.”-Anna, paramedic.

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About the charity

BAGS for Strife

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RCN 1194111
Absolutely nothing prepares you for loss by suicide. For all of us who set up the charity, it’s so important to do something in honour & in memory of those we lost, and we can only hope through our own experience, we can offer some support through the darkest of days. We reached out to friends and family who all have experienced loss in this way and asked them to describe their most prominent emotions in the following months. The common feelings were Blame, Anger, Guilt and Sadness. Why? We were struck by the lack of accessible support for families and friends in the aftermath of loss by suicide and having reached out to others who have been through similar circumstances, we realised that our experience was not unique. Whilst there are a range of services “out there”, the issue appears to be a lack of knowledge/accessibility/geographical variation/timeliness of these. In response, we have subsequently established BAGS for Strife – a charity that is steered and led by a group of people with their own lived experience of suicide and its aftermath. What? We know that everyone’s experience of grief and loss is unique. Some people may want help in the first few days to navigate their way through the practical elements that must be faced, others may want to reach out for emotional support, and some may stumble and fall weeks or months or years after their tragedy. BAGs will provide practical and emotional support both for the short and long term.

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