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I know you'll probably think I'm a bit mad as, apart from the odd bus, I hadn't run since school sports day when I applied for a place - and I'm 73! However, I've got time to train and I'm determined to do my best for Team Marie Curie and enjoy the experience.If you were able to sponsor me, anything at all, I'd be very grateful and it would spur me on when times get tough, as they no doubt will!
Mum had a major stroke and, like many others, it was devastating for her. She ended up being unable to move from the chest down, needing double-up care four times a day.
I was her primary carer for years before and after she had her stroke, and looked after her, being on the end of the phone, taking her out in her wheelchair and liaising with her carers and making sure she indulged in the things she still loved, like ice cream, even though the mess was joyous!
Keeping her dignity and giving her the best quality of life possible was important to me and the rest of the family.
Sadly, Mum developed an infection that did not respond to treatment, but she (understandably, especially as she had completed an Advanced Directive) refused to go to hospital and so was prescribed palliative care by her very caring GP.
Her carers were always kind and carried on with their visits throughout her last few weeks. However, they were unable to provide cover for the nights, but Marie Curie nurses stepped in and looked after her alternate nights, so I could have a night off. This was an absolute godsend but the thing I remember most was how kind and gentle they were. They were so caring and supportive I could not possibly thank them enough.
Towards the end I was worried that should Mum suddenly deteriorate I would be too far away to be there quickly enough, although I could have been there in 15 minutes. They suggested I sleep in her flat on a camp bed and they would wake me up if needed. This was such a relief. In the end Mum passed as the Marie Curie nurse was due to finish, but she stayed with me beyond her shift and was incredibly kind and helpful.
I have never stopped being grateful to Marie Curie's wonderful nurses, which is why I would be over the moon if you could help me reach my target. Anything you can manage would really be appreciated and help Marie Curie to support more people like me.
Thank you xXx
On 21st April 2024, our incredible #TeamMarieCurie runners will be taking to the streets of London and running 26.2 miles in aid of Marie Curie. All the money that is raised helps Marie Curie Nurses provide vital care and support to people with terminal illness, and their families at the toughest time.
£20 pays for one hour of vital nursing care at home for someone living with a terminal illness.
£57 pays for an hour of clinical support from an expert nurse via our Support Line.
£180 pays for a whole night of care from a Marie Curie Nurse.
See Marie Curie's new campaign video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGbvd45bU_c&t=1s