We are 40 and 50 years old this year. That is more than enough time to acquire more than enough things. So we'd really rather not receive birthday gifts at our big party. Instead, just bring yourselves and, if you would like to do something, please give generously to Bede - a wonderful local south London charity that we support.

Donating through JustGiving is simple, fast and totally secure. Your details are safe with JustGiving - they'll never sell them on or send unwanted emails. Once you donate, they'll send your money directly to the charity. So it's the most efficient way to donate - saving time and cutting costs for the charity.