Those who know me know that I'm not a runner. I'm not built for it. I'm a bit of a lump and spend more of my time cycling or sparring than I do pounding the pavement... But I do like a new challenge :)

I was convinced (stupidly) by a few colleagues to enter the Bath Half this year. 3-4 miles is usually my "I'm done now" mark, so the thought of 13 was mind-blowing.

Anyway, through wind, rain, cold and some very sore shin-splints, I trained and it's now time to weigh-in. I have decided (a bit last minute) that I would actually try to raise a little money for a very worthy cause whilst I'm at it. I've made too much effort to waste the opportunity. Here's a little backstory and some motivation for donation (rhymes)...

Back in 2016, Sarah and I got pregnant for the first, and only, time in 7 years. It was a long road of disappointment until then, and we were so excited about finally becoming parents. It seems that it was never meant to be, and at our 12 week scan, we were told that baby Strange's (because, to us, that's who he/she was) heart was no longer beating. Even after "only" 12 weeks it's impossible to explain the feeling of absolute emptiness (the word doesn't even do it justice) that ensued, and harder still to imagine that it could be any worse.

Grief is a strange word. It's a small word (almost too small) that seems to represent an immeasurable loss. It's unique and personal to each of us, relative to every moment in our lives that brings us to that single point. I have experienced grief. My grief. Different to Sarah's, different to my parents, and to my grandparents. Different to how everyone experiences their own grief. We all cope differently too.

I have friends and family that have experienced the devastating loss of a child/young adult. The battle that they went through was brutal. Most of us do get through it though. Some with charities, some without. But it's so important that charities like "2 Wish Upon a Star" exist. And vital that they are, in-turn, supported by like-minded people. I'm not setting a target, because every donation helps, regardless of the amount. If you have a spare quid or 2, please support me and my chosen charity...

"2 Wish Upon A Star provides bereavement support for families who have suddenly and traumatically lost a child or young adult aged 25 years and under.When a family loses a child or young adult the effects are devastating for all who knew and loved them. It is important that support is available if and when required.It is important families know that they are not alone and that the feelings they are experiencing are often normal."

"When it rains, look for rainbows.
When it's dark, look for the stars"

Baby Strange, Baby Giles, Baby Jones, Libby, Rachael, Hattie-Ann, William, Tia-Louise... and all the other rainbows and stars