When Des was diagnosed with oesophageal cancer it was a very difficult time for all the family. We were in the middle of a pandemic, living in lockdown and isolating from friends and family. To be told your cancer is non curative and you only have between 6 and 12 months to live was completely devastating.

We were told to visit the Maggie’s centre near the Christie and we were so glad we did. It is truly a place of calm, a safe haven in the midst of all the trauma.

Des found his diagnosis very difficult to accept. Fortunately he was able to have regular sessions with the Centre’s Psychologist Robin Muir. These chats proved to be invaluable.

Also during this time Laurie and I took part in the friends and family support group online. I actually came to look forward to these Tuesday sessions where people could share their experiences and talk about their fears and worries. It was always good to hear when someone had a clear scan!

While Des was having his treatments I could sit and read in the centre, enjoy the garden, talk to one of the support team, cry and have a cup of tea. Nothing was too much trouble. The emotional support provided was a life line and gave me the strength to keep going.

Sadly Des’s battle with cancer only lasted 7 months, but Maggie’s are still there supporting us as a family. We have taken part in the bereavement groups and continue to meet up regularly. It makes a difference talking to people who have been through the same ordeal.

Maggie’s is completely funded by donations. Having a  ‘kitchen table couple of hours’ is the least we can do to support them.