Story
Our oldest daughter Jennifer was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer in 2007 aged just 15. She fought her illness with great courage for three and a half years. During her first months of treatment she built a web site through which she told of her journey with cancer. In 9 months remission she managed to achieve credit passes in the three Standard grade exams she was still able to complete. She was a bridesmaid at her cousin's wedding (the best day of her life), became a prefect at school, went to Disneyland Paris and Lapland and attended the Christmas ball at school. She lived life to the full, appreciating every moment. She was always thinking of the other children who were ill and was starting to get involved in fund raising for the charities which had done so much for her. In January 2009 we were devastated when she relapsed. This time the treatment was really hard on her but she never complained. Despite being very tired most of the time she tried to continue with school work and achieved her Higher English. She opted for High Dose Chemo and had her stem cells harvested before the treatment and replaced afterwards. On the 11th of August , the day we were meant to leave hospital at the end of this treatment, we were given the news we dreaded, that the cancer was still there and they couldn't do any more. Jennifer took this prognosis calmly and continued as courageously as she had done before. We tried to remain positive hoping that a miracle would be round the corner. We packed as many special days in as we could when she was able, but I knew on my 50th birthday when she didn't feel well enough to attend an afternoon tea that we had been asked to, that time was getting short. Less than two weeks later she slipped away with myself, her dad and her brother and sister around her. We miss her more than words can say.
Joanne and I have signed up for Race for Life in
memory of Jennifer and in tribute to her courage and that of all the young
people we met through her treatment, equally as brave. Too many are with
Jennifer watching over their families, but there are also many who have beaten cancer
or leukemia, thanks to continually improving treatments, and it is wonderful to
see them grow and be inspired by their achievements.