Anthony and Jackie Palmer

For Jacob

Fundraising for Sands, the stillbirth and neonatal death charity
£6,461
raised of £5,000 target
In memory of Jacob Ethan Palmer
Sands, the stillbirth and neonatal death charity

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We provide support services and work to reduce the number of baby deaths

Story

Our beautiful son, Jacob, was born on 16th August 2016. He was nine days overdue when he finally decided he was ready to come. After three days in labour, his little heart stopped unexpectedly. His death could have and should have been prevented.

With all the risks that do get mentioned to parents during pregnancy, stillbirth never once crossed our minds - medical professionals are completely silent about this possibility. Since Jacob's death, we have been shocked to discover that 15 babies die every day in the UK before, during, or shortly after birth. In fact, 1 in every 250 pregnancies ends in stillbirth. In the UK alone, every year, around 3500 babies are stillborn - that's twice the number of people who die in road traffic accidents. Sadly, 9 in 10 of these deaths are either completely 'unexplained' or could have been prevented. Babies being stillborn is 5 times more common than Down's syndrome and 15 times more common than SIDS/cot death.

Despite these devastating statistics, this is an incredibly under-researched and under-funded area. In memory of our son, w
e are now passionate about raising awareness of this risk and raising money for SANDS, a large stillbirth and neonatal death charity in the UK who support bereaved families and fund stillbirth research projects.

We hope that raising money for SANDS 
will ensure that the children at risk of stillbirth are no longer ignored. If only one family could have their 'Jacob', then perhaps our struggle will not be in vain. You can donate via credit, debit or PayPal using the orange button.

Thank you in advance for your heartfelt donation,
Jackie and Anthony Palmer

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About the charity

Sands, the stillbirth and neonatal death charity

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Sands supports anyone affected by the death of a baby, works in partnership with health professionals to try to ensure that bereaved parents and families receive the best possible care and funds research that could help to reduce the numbers of babies dying and families devastated by this tragedy.

Donation summary

Total raised
£6,460.55
+ £630.38 Gift Aid
Online donations
£6,460.55
Offline donations
£0.00

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