Ian’s cancer story began in June 2020 when he was diagnosed with oesophageal cancer and “markers” elsewhere, we had no idea that he was ill.
From the start he was determined, positive, dignified and amazingly brave despite knowing he could not be cured.
The 9hr long chemo sessions began in July 2020 until October. Ian was admitted to Cheltenham Gen in November where he remained for 24 days during lockdown.
It was at this time he, with the help of Cookie, hatched the idea of Ed’s Army to thank the many people for their incredible support and to raise funds for Focus. His beloved sister, Jane, made hundreds of Christmas PPE face masks to further help swell the Focus fund.
Ian then went for a PET scan which showed the tumour to be greatly reduced and the “markers” no longer showing. A further endoscopy followed – the tumour could not be seen! Ian had gone into remission, a goal he longed to achieve, and he made the most of it.
Sadly this did not continue and he went through several other treatments until later last year when the 9hr long chemo sessions re-started.
Ian had not given up, but his body had. I looked after him at home which was a privilege (testing at times!).
Sue Ryder were able to offer him a place on the 25th Feb until he left us on 10th March.
I know he would want me to thank the awesome Sean Elyan, his oncology team especially the nurses on Lillybrook Ward: Vicky Bell, Charlotte, Wendy, Dr Kate, Kelly & Lisa. The lovely District Nurses particularly Georgia & Laura from Palliative Care, the Dr’s and staff at Royal Crescent Surgery and the incredible team at Sue Ryder Hospice.
Lastly but by no means least, our dearly loved family and our truly amazing friends.
I want to thank my darling Ian for finally making me his wife, I love you and always will.