Dementia. What is it? 2 years ago my lovely, amazing, strong grandad was diagnosed with dementia leaving us all heartbroken and anxious of what might come. Immediately you think it’s just when they forget your name, but it’s not. 

Dementia is so much more than just forgetting people. Dementia is confusion about where you live, forgetting how to write, forgetting how to read. Thinking you can see things that aren’t real. Crying, screaming, shouting out of sheer frustration that you can’t understand what’s going anymore. Dementia is asking someone when you can go home when you’re sitting in your lounge. Dementia is trying to pay for shopping with tissues in your pockets because you believe that is your money. Dementia is so much more than you can possibly imagine. 

My grandad is more like my dad, when I lost my beautiful mum, my Nan and grandad stepped up and took care of me and my sister. They gave up their retirement to give us the best possible life, we are so lucky. He overcame cancer and fought his way through to continue to be there for us. He is one of the most special people in my life and I will forever be grateful for every single thing that he has ever been done for me. 

Seeing a man who was once so strong fade away a little bit more every day has shattered my heart. Someone who I would always go to for advice and help is now coming to me for advice and help. 

Grandad you have always been a huge part of my life, without you I wouldn’t be where I am now. 

You taught me everything I know and I will forever be grateful for you. You are a special kind of person and I will always treasure you. 

For now we must hold on to the glimpses of your old self, when he is smiling and joking just like he used to. 

Dementia, you are evil and you need to be stopped. I will do everything in my power to combat this disease starting from today. My first challenge is Trek26, a 26 mile walk in London,  but I know it won’t stop there. 

I know I always ask for donations but even £1 makes such a huge difference. Fund the research and together we will find a way to break through. 

Grandad I promise you that I will do everything I can to help make a difference. I promise I will take your strength to get through this for you. I promise to always be there for you. I love you with every piece of me and thank you from the bottom of my heart for everything you have done, you are one in a million ❤️

Alzheimers Society is transforming the landscape of dementia forever.Until the day we find a cure, we will create a society where those affected by dementia are supported and accepted, able to live in their community without fear or prejudice.