Ben was Nigel and Su's youngest son, a happy, healthy, fun loving boy and best friends with his elder brother, Luke. However it was a month after his 9th birthday party that their whole world began to crumble, Ben suffered a little seizure which became one of many over the next few days.    

They took Ben straight to hospital. Before they knew it, Ben was going through a myriad of examinations, tests, scans and under went a biopsy. A few days after the biopsy they were given the results, the news, that as parents you would hope so hard not to have to hear. Ben had a malignant brain tumour, in other words, cancer. The family felt that they'd stepped into another world in the space of a few seconds, one where they had no experience, no compass to guide them and nobody to turn to. Almost immediately, Ben began a course of Radio and Chemotherapy along with a cocktail of drugs to control his seizures. In the midst of this, Sally and Ally came into their lives.

Sally and Ally are CLIC Sargent nurses, and they provided so much more than just medical advice. They guided them through how they told Ben’s older brother Luke about what was happening, explained to them about the effects of radio and chemotherapy, helped them to navigate the never ending NHS maze and supported them through some of the darkest hours anyone can imagine, but most importantly of all they were there for Ben. It was thanks to Sally and Ally that Ben was able to have blood tests and much of his treatment at home rather than in hospital. It was also thanks to Sally and Ally that Ben understood and wasn’t scared of any of the treatment that he was given, they were always honest, but they always cared about and intuitively knew how precious and desperately ill Ben was.

Ben bravely fought the tumour that was continuing to grow in his brain. But in December 2011, 8 months after his initial diagnosis, the doctors sensitively told the family that there was no more that could be done, the Chemotherapy had to be stopped. It was at this point that Sally and Ally stepped up even further. With their help, Ben remained at home until he passed away peacefully on 23rd February 2012, surrounded by those who loved him most. Sally and Ally visited 3-4 times each day towards the end. Together with the family, they'd made sure that Ben didn’t have to cope with any scary machines or have people around him that he didn’t know. They cared deeply about Nigel, Su and Luke, always quietly there for each of them when they needed them the most, intuitively understanding what they were going through and making sure that they were prepared for what they had to face. They are still there for the family, over 2 years since they lost Ben, just making sure that they are doing OK and helping them with each stage of what, at times felt like a never ending wave of grief.

Lots of children do recover from cancer but some, like Ben, don’t.

10 families each day in the UK are told that their child has cancer – that’s 10 more families like the Crutchleys' who will desperately need the help of CLIC Sargent. 

I hope that by raising just £100 by running this 10k I can make the tiniest difference.

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