On November 29th I got a call from my Dad at 7am that would shatter our worlds forever. He believed my Mum was having a stroke. He called an ambulance who were there within minutes, Due to Covid restrictions he could not go with her, and the next 36 hours were hell not quite knowing where she was, what condition she was and no way of holding her hand giving her comfort. What we did know was that, she had indeed suffered a major stroke. 

The terrible blows just kept coming and on the 30th November, a day later were allowed to be with her, as there was no hope. And I held her in arms as she went to sleep for the last time.

Losing our beautiful Mum, wife and Nan has left the biggest whole in our family. But we try and make her proud every day.

She was the most loyal, fiercest, unique, incredible woman. And for that reason I want to something incredible for her. And for all the other people whose hearts get crushed by this condition, or who have a long road of rehabilitation ahead.

That's why I have chosen to run the marathon, currently an almost inconceivable feat. But I can do it. I know my Mum will be with me every step of this journey. 

When stroke strikes, part of your brain shuts down. And so does a part of you. Life changes instantly and recovery is tough. But the brain can adapt. The Stroke Association's specialist support, research and campaigning are only possible with the courage and determination of the stroke community. With more donations and support from you, we can rebuild even more lives.