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Every three minutes, somebody in the UK is told they have dementia. In 2020, deep in the first lockdown, I had to sit my lovely Mum down and break the devastating news to her that she had Mixed Dementia, (Vascular Dementia and Alzheimer’s). Seeing a fleeting moment of panic cross her face when I mentioned the ‘A’ word will live with me forever. Mum nursed my Granny who died from Alzheimer’s and this was top on the list of things she feared getting.
Three years later we navigate the dementia maze together. It’s bought us closer and we spend a great deal of time laughing. She’s safe and happy, oblivious to her deteriorating condition and her total dependence on me.
I’ve chosen to run the London Marathon for the Alzheimer’s Society because despite being too late to help my Mum, I don’t want my children to have to care for me and I don’t want their children to have to care for them. There is no cure for Alzheimer’s but with research one day there might be… Until then, those living with dementia need to be cared for, providing them with dignity and the quality of life they deserve.
I am a keen runner and am looking forward to the challenge of another marathon. Training will start in December but until then I’ll carry on running. It calms me and gives me the chance to escape, just briefly from my role as a carer.
Thank you for your support, it means the world to me and my Mum.
Alzheimer’s Society is transforming the landscape of dementia forever. Until the day we find a cure, we will create a society where those affected by dementia are supported and accepted, able to live in their community without fear or prejudice.