I started my running journey just over a year ago in the hope that I would loose a few pounds, little did I know the effect it would have on my mental health which at the time was at an all time low. We had just had these 2 incredible little humans come to take our family from 2 to 4 and I had never imagined how hard this adventure was going to be.

Things began to spiral and I felt at times that I was drowning in my own family life, something needed to change. Running became my escape, my me time, time that no one called me dad or needed something from me. A time where I didnt feel like I was failing or doing a bad job. 

Never did I dare dream of running a marathon when I started I didnt even think I would get to 5K, but I did and with that came self belief and allowing myself to believe I can achieve bigger things. So I nervously applied for the London marathon, thinking there was no chance I would get a place. How wrong was I, the email arrived to confirm my place and the realisation hit that I would actually have to do it. 

I then thought about the reason and charity that I am running for, Barnardos. Barnardos have been the backbone of our family since our journey began. Our social worker  and her wider team have been nothing short of incredible. From the very first steps of making that first phone call, the endless hours put in getting to know us and writing our profile, helping us find our children. All while never judging us and being available day or night whenever we needed her (trust me there were some dark time and late night emergency visit). The amazing feeling of being supported by our social worker and the Barnardos team is like no other and we will forever be grateful for it.

This is why I have chosen to run for this charity because without them I am certain that our family would not have survived. Along with our wonderful family and friends, massive shout out to you!

Thins brings me on to you. Its time for me to start begging for your hard earned cash, to help me give back to barnardos. Without fundraising and and peoples generosity this charity would not be able to provide families and children with the help that they need.

So no matter how big or small the amount, please donate what you can. After all I am dragging myself round 26.2 miles of London, got to be worth a quid or 2 right.

Thank you for taking the time read my story.

Much love

Tim and Team Bon-Meeks