Story
It's hard watching a loved one die, but that's what my family had to do when our youngest sister, Chris Cato, lost her battle against brain cancer at UCLH in November 2022 after a relatively short illness. Chris started feeling unwell on 8th August, about 1 month later after blood tests, biopsy & various other tests, she was diagnosed with brain cancer & admitted to UCLH as an emergency. We didn't know it at the time, but this turned out to be a very aggressive cancer.
We were hopeful at first as Chris was responding well to the chemotherapy & she was cracking jokes with staff, giving 'instructions', just being herself. Unfortunately Chris then contracted pneumonia & was transferred to ICU. Subsequently, sepsis took hold & this finally proved too big a battle for my 'baby' sister.
Chris wanted to live so much, she loved her husband, her family, her 3 grandchildren & her garden, she had so much to live for. Her devoted husband of 45+ years sat by her bedside at UCLH every day wishing & hoping she would pull through (as we all were). On train strike days (there were several), he walked a couple of hours each way to & from UCLH to be with her; she was sedated by now so wouldn't have known if he was there or not, but he knew. There were bad days & better days, but rarely 'good' days by this stage.
Having run a few marathons I thought I was getting "too old for this stuff"! Then when Chris lost her battle I felt I needed to do something to thank the staff (the nursing staff in the Neurological ICU were a great support to both Chris & my brother-in-law through this time). So it's time to dust off my marathon training schedule, increase the miles again, & do my sister proud in April.
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