Helen Valentino

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Fundraising for The Forward Trust
£1,997
raised of £5,000 target
Event: London Marathon 2023, on 23 April 2023
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Well I did run and marathon and a half marathon but was unable to take part in the 2023 marathon due to stress fractures in my foot which occurred during training. I had hoped to try for the 2024 event but my amazing 4 month adventure round South Central and North America meant that I could not train effectively - so what next? watch this space but in the meantime I continue to raise money for this amazing cause that literally saved my life (read below) so please give generously - thank you :-) 

Me – running a marathon – I know crazy right !! If you speak to my old Army buddies they will all tell you the same thing, whilst I loved team sports I absolutely hated running – in fact if you talk to my old school friends they will tell you the same thing. The one

(and only) 5 mile cross country run I did at school nearly killed meand my Army BFT (Basic Fitness Test) I just managed to squeezethrough each time. So how at the ripe young age of 50 did I think it was a good idea?? And why have I chosen “Action on Addiction” as my charity of choice? Read on to find our more but first a quick update

I managed to complete the London Landmark half Marathon in 2hrs44 mins despite have post-COVID stuff meaning I couldn’t train for most of march and April – even better is that I managed to raise £1185 beating my target of £500 which as awesome so thank you to those who sponsored me!

I am now about to start training for what I am hoping is my finalmarathon taking place in April next year 2023 – wish me luck I’m hoping to beat my previous time of 6hrs 10 mins – we shall see!

Back when I was on Ward 4 in the Queen ElizabethMilitary Hospital in Woolwich our one NCO staff nurse on the ward who’s name I am ashamed to say I have forgotten (but I never forgot her) was hobbling about at work and I asked her what was wrong – she said she was a bit stiff from running the marathon – I hadn’t heard of the Marathon back then (approx. 1995 give or take a year) and so she explained she had run 26 and half miles the day before. Well I couldn’t believe my ears over 26 miles I could hardly make it round my BFT, to say I was stunned was an understatement, but what I felt was this total feeling of awe, that someone could run that far (and still come to work the next day!) was a bit beyond my comprehension. I remember thinking - god what an achievement if I didn’t hate running so much and was so bad at it, I would love to do that one day – what an achievement. But that was all it was, a thought, that didn’t resurface for another 25 years. But I will never forget my admiration for that lady.

Scroll forward about 23 years and I suddenly acquire adog (there is a point to this I promise) quite unexpectedly. Not havingplanned on being the proud foster Mum of Paddy the adorable black and white pointer collie cross, and already having a pretty full life Ifound myself struggling to find the time to fit an extra hour or soof walking into my day. I had this crazy idea if I ran a bit andwalked a bit it would save me some time, and so my new hobby ofrunning began – very slowly and quite secretly (I only ran when noone else was watching). But after a while (months in fact) I managedto run 3 miles without stopping. By this time my big 50 was loomingover the horizon and I was determined to do something reallychallenging to mark the occasion – prove to myself I could dowhatever I set my mind to – age was no barrier!

That’s when the idea of running the Marathon for charity came into my mind, I remembered the day all those years ago and how I feltwhen the Nurse on the ward told me what she had done. It seemed like the prefect challenge but was it just a bit too much of a challenge?I decided to go for it and if I could get a place, I knew I wouldsomehow find a way to get round all 26 and a half miles. At

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The Forward Trust supports services and programmes that inspire and empower people to break the negative cycle of addiction or offending, transforming the lives of individuals, their families and society in general.

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