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On behalf of Joan's family, her loving husband Ian her children Melanie, Andrew, Jason and their partners Alan and Clare and her Grandchildren Kyle and Saoirse her partner Lawrence.
On the 7th August Joan's son Andrew who many of you may know as panda will be doing a walk in memory of Joan from Newbury to Hungerford. Any donations will be greatly appreciated and will be going directly to the Sue Ryder Duchess of Kent hospice.
The charity he has chosen to raise funds for is the Duchess of Kent hospice in reading this is because when Joan got her diagnosis of motor neurons disease they provided all the support and care that Joan needed and also were a fantastic support to her family throughout. Joan took a shine to one of the carers Lucy and always looked forward to her visits. In Andrew's words they went above and beyond to help make life that much easier for Joan and even now after the loss of Joan they continue to support Joan's husband Ian.
Below is the Eulogy for you to take a read about Joan's life.
Eulogy for Joan Margaret Johnston (nee Goodfellow)
16th February
1944 – 26th April
2021
In Newbury, Joan
was a ‘war time’ baby born to parents
Percy and Lavinia who had
relocated from Southampton after theWWII ‘bombing’
of Vickers factory where Percy was employed. Her elder brothers Donald and
Peter spent much of those war years as evacuees in Wales. Joan spent her early childhood, living at
Charter Close with her family who shared many happy memories with their good
friends and neighboursthe
Barratt family. Unexpectedly,
Joan’s father died when she was eight years old. Joan first attended
Winchcombe School and later Shaw House for girls where she enjoyed studying History. The
friends made in early
childhood, remained with her into adulthood,
such as Mary, Jan, Sue and many more besides. Joan was a shy girl who found
a new sense of freedom and independence when she owned her first bicycle.She would
spend many a summers day cycling for miles with her friends and having adventures just as the characters did in her favourite Enid Blyton books.
On special occasions or
family visits Joan she
would relish the opportunity of visiting a tearoom and eating as many cream cakes as she could, this was considered such a treat for her! For Joan,
had a sweet tooth and would cycle home at speed to make a strawberry blancmange with her mother which
would be enjoyed, just as soon as it was set! The
family now living on Cresswell Road and upon leaving
Shaw House School,
her first full time job was at AWE Aldermaston. Passing
her driving test first time, Joan loved
the independence of being able to drive and would often drive her friends in
her cherished Mini Cooper. Joan’s early
interests in music wascreated
from her visits to ‘the pictures’ in the 1950’s to see Rock around the Clock and Jail House Rock. Her
early taste in music was heavily influenced by all things Motown.
In the early 1970’s she
met a man named Ian Johnston in The Castle public house, Newbury with whom she would share the next fifty years with. Ian and Joan were
married at St Mary’s Church at Shaw on
6th November 1971.
Joan and Ian became parents to Melanie, Andrew and Jason and the family all lived at Ewing Way. Following the death of her mother, Joan began working part-time as a Florist delivery
driver. This role allowed her children to accompany her. Some lasting memories were made during this time, Jason
accompanied her most days and they both enjoyed visits to the Empire Café to buy supplies for the
day. During school holidays, Melanie and Andrew enjoyed spending time with them, though not so much the transport being
a Renault
4 van which always smelt of jam donuts and chrysanthemum’s! Whilst travelling to make deliveries they
would sing-along to songs such as Que Sera, Sera and Don’t
Dilly Dally on the Way. In
the 1980’s she began working at Marks and Spencer’s and
later returning to working
at AWE Aldermaston prior to, Thatcham
MOD Depot and MOD
Police at Aldermaston. After retirement, she worked part-time at Tesco.
Joan warmly
welcomed her
son in law Alan into the family and she later thrilled at being ‘Nannie’
to Saoirse in 1998 and Kyle in 2000. Joan
had great compassion for others and enjoyed spending
time with friend Dotty, keeping in touch with old friends and family even if only
able to by way of a letter or Christmas
card. Retirement offered the opportunity for Joan and Ian to spend holidays either abroad or visiting family in Great Yarmouth.
Joan was well known and liked in her neighbourhood due to her caring nature of wanting to help others. Whilst
the year 2020 will become infamous due to the global pandemic, this year was also hugely significant for Joan and her loved ones with the devastating news
of a diagnosis of Motor Neurone Disease.
Joan
approached this by focussing on what she could do, rather than what she couldn’t and made
one final visit to Great Yarmouth for a family holiday. Joan enjoyed
watching various sports on television with
Ian, which included horse-racing and football. Joan
was very proud of all her
family, and
all theirachievements and
frequently would say, ‘I
wouldn’t of, been
able to do that …’. However, the reason
that they were all able to succeed or strive
to do their best in
their endeavours was because of her love and support. Joan
had a very positive outlook to life and by saying, there’s always ‘hope’.
By looking forward and remaining positive was
something shestrongly believed in. To us, her Chicks she would often
say ‘keep your pecker up’ during difficult times.
Joan, Mum and Nannie we will always love you
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