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On 21st April 2024, our youngest son, Henry Joseph Grierson (17) took a tragic decision to end his own life and broke the hearts of his family sending shockwaves through the community.

Henry is our baby with siblings Naomi (23), Thomas (21) and Jacob (19). A squad swimmer from age 7 he followed his brothers into Rugby League and Rugby Union before secondary school. He achieved great GCSEs and was attending college. He had recently been selected to represent Scotland in the u19s European Rugby League Championships with Jacob. He was an Air Cadet following his dream to become an Avionics Technician in the RAF. We couldn’t be prouder.

But Henry was so much more than his achievements. A unique individual, with a truly larger than life personality. Funny, intelligent, articulate, sometimes silly but with a deep intellect and sensitive, emotional maturity that many will never achieve in their lifetimes. Our beautiful boy was kind and thoughtful. A “One-off” totally unique, there will never be another Henry Grierson. His passion, humour, wit and individuality made him such a fascinating person and we couldn’t be prouder as his family.

Henry you will remain forever 17 in our hearts, the brightest firework in the sky. A life of extrovert superlatives. Beautiful, spectacular and while your life may have been short, your cheeky smile and the crazy memories will last. You lit up our lives and spread so much joy.

Following what we hope will be the world’s most amazing funeral, we start the process to turn this tragedy into a positive legacy. Henry exhibited signs of ADHD from a very young age officially diagnosed aged 10. He described himself as “A Ferrari With No Brakes”. He bit his nails, was untidy, had poor money management, was late, continually fidgeted, shouted out in class, forgot his books etc. As he grew older, he was prone to take impulsive actions with more serious consequences with which he was not emotionally equipped to deal. Henry was let down by the education system, the NHS and the Police. Whilst unintentional, the lack of understanding of neurodiversity in these authoritarian establishments meant that Henry did not have the support required and ultimately caused his loss of respect. This led to low self esteem and self-medicating with substances to cope. We will honour Henry’s name creating change for those like Henry who struggle to navigate education and transition from teenager to adulthood.

For people 15-29 yrs, suicide is the 2nd cause of death. ADHD prevalence is estimated at 5-7% in u18s. Studies suggest an association between ADHD and antisocial behaviour, depression and substance abuse. Individuals with ADHD are also at greater risk of suicide. Help us break this cycle and start better education resources about ADHD in schools so that young people are appropriately accommodated.

Ferrari boy our hearts are broken. Rest in Peace Henry and know that our love for you could not be greater and will never diminish. If you know Henry, his family, have been touched by ADHD or just want to make the world a better place please make a donation. Help us educate the world to become a kinder place for everyone. We are all different!

If you know of anyone or think you know anyone or are struggling with your own mental health or substance abuse then please speak to someone or seek professional help. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

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