- Most memorable or important 2 moments as a gymnast......
Growing up I remember always being a part of the Y, whether it was jumping in the pools, hanging out in the snack room doing homework, or even sitting in the gym watching my teammates coach.
I was always at the Y; even on my off days from practice, I would go in with my sister. She was my biggest fan and supporter. I shared so many memories with her, including one of my biggest accomplishments as a gymnast. I had just finished competing first day level 8. It was a huge goal of mine to make second day but you had to qualify in order to compete again (the top 20 gymnasts for junior and senior age divisions qualify - let me tell you jr. is and will forever be the hardest age division!). We left to go grab some food because there was still another session before they hung the list on the wall. I remember so clear to this day sitting in the booth at pizza hut with my dad, sister and another teammate getting the call from my coach Donna. You made it! We all stood up on the booth jumping up and down screaming. It was a feeling I can’t put into words knowing I made it. I placed 13th out of all the jr. for level 8s.
My dad and mom drove me to every meet. If you're sports parents, you know how crazy weekends can be with kids in competitions on different days on the same weekend. I still remember states when I was a level 5. My dad was - let’s say, not a quiet one - during gymnastics meets. He was my biggest cheerleader in the stands. I believe everybody knew exactly who he was. My team and I were sitting around waiting for awards. The second I was named state all-around champion the place was no longer quiet. My dad stood up screaming “my baby's number one” leaning over the railing and yes, the look on my face said that I was "slightly" embarrassed. The announcer said “is that your dad?” I smiled and shook my head yes. To this day I remember having the best dad in the stands and this will forever be a story for me to share.
My most memorable moment as a gymnast is the last meet my mom attended. My mom was very sick with colon cancer but that did not stop her from coming to every meet she could, along with every activity, work, family event and just being there to support our family. She knew that this would probably be the last meet for her. She contacted coaches Donna and Glenda and said "I will be at this meet to see my babies one last time." She mentioned "I’m probably going to get a lot of stares but I’m not going to miss it for the world." As my mom reached the end of her battle, her skin became more yellow but she showed up with a huge smile on her face that I remember to this day! A few stared but she did not mind, as long as she was there that’s all that mattered to her. I remember my teammate, probably 6 at the time, saying “Mrs. Brenda why is your skin like that?” She said “hunny this is what happens when you're out in the sun too long.” My teammate sat right down on her lap and watched the meet with my mom. Teammates loved her for her strong-willed attitude and fight. That was her last meet in person but she was an angel watching over me for all the rest. I will forever remember that last meet for her in the stands cheering me, my sister, and all my teammates on!
2. Most memorable moments as a coach......
There are so many! I have shared and made unforgettable moments every day over the past 15 years as a coach, and these special, everlasting, remarkable moments we build together are why I coach. I coach to help talented kids reach their goals. I help them develop determination, learn from mistakes, discipline, leadership, challenges, and to fight/work hard not only in the gym but in everyday life as well. I coach to encourage them to take risks. If that leads to failure, bounce back and try a different way. No, we are not perfect or have perfect nights but I want to inspire them to never give up. I coach to remind them of just how amazing they truly are. As a coach, I see something in them that they have yet to see in themself. It’s my job to continue to help guide them to that point. I’m proud to not only be just a coach but to be a part of a wonderful team and family we have. I coach for memorable moments like these.
3. The impact that the program has had on my growth...
I feel every day I am still learning and growing with the program. I believe that it is not just the program that impacts my life but the people in the program who allowed me to achieve goals, find friendships, create an endless bond, and become who I am as a woman today. I wouldn’t be who I am without the mentorship of my former coaches, teammates, and family. The biggest growth I have come to face was the moment my boss, second mom, coach, and mentor Donna retired from a long 35 years. She was my rock, my go-to person, my leader, my reason for falling in love with this program! When she left, I had to face change and transformation on someone else coming into this home she created for many years. I was lost but had gained the confidence, courage, and love to this program through her and I knew that I will continue to make her proud along with the hope of expanding my growth and impact to others to come.
4. The growth that she sees in those she now coaches.....
With being here almost 15 years, I have seen the growth of many gymnasts. I see great work ethic, fight, highs, lows, and determination for who they are! I’ve had the opportunity to see and share all their improvements, struggles, and accomplishments. They inspire me to be a better coach day in and day out, for they are growing through me but I'm also growing from them. They are strong young athletes who constantly grow all the way to the end of their careers. They believe in me in different ways. They let me be a part of their life and trust me to remind them every day why they are here and why to put so much effort into this sport and program. I see change in them before they see it in themselves. I am blessed to have the chance to coach, be a part of this program and grow with them.