Many people have kindly expressed their wish to send flowers or alternatively make a donation to a charity. Having given this a lot of thought I believe Tim's preference would be for donations to a charity of my choosing, rather than flowers. 

A charity very dear to our hearts is the "Catholic Children's Adoption Society"(Caritas) a charity which has succeeded in turning around lives for many disadvantaged children. As you may know, their work had special significance for our family, and has enriched all our lives greatly. Many thanks Gale, Carla and Ellie xxx